Today I want to think about the theme first, unrequited love. Namely, how can parents help a teen who doesn’t know how to survive first love?
First love happens at the age of 13-16 years. Time in the life of a teenager and already fragile. But if the love is unrequited or comes the moment of the breakup – a long and painful experiences can not be avoided.
This is the case when parents can either win the favor of their child, providing him with proper support, or to hurt him even more.
Most of the parents watching the experiences of his child, trying to help, but often this “help” only makes things worse. What seems so insignificant with all those years, at the age of 14 seems to be the biggest tragedy. It is important to remember this always.
How to survive your first love? A few tips to help parents:
1 . Let the child calm and understanding. He must feel that he is safe that houses his love and ready to listen. During this period, the child is extremely important a feeling of a reliable backup that can only be provided by parents.
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There is no doubt that congratulations from parents at the wedding of their children are sincere and come from the heart, so not so important, what they will say.
But if through your words relatives will be able to convey to the guests all the feelings that overwhelm them, they are brilliant eloquence.
Like any other greetings, wishes and farewell from parents should not be too long and easy to read, otherwise it’s not all will understand and appreciate.
Should try to find concise words that will help to emphasize the brightness of thoughts. Congratulations from parents at the wedding of the daughter or son can be both in prose and in verse, you can select music or lighting effects, tentatively agreed with the master of ceremonies.
Hope that wishes will come to mind at the right moment is not worth it, better to prepare in advance. Anyway, whichever option greetings parents choose, their words will be the most important for the newlyweds.
A BLESSING FROM THE BRIDE’S PARENTS
The bride’s parents have the honour to congratulate the newlyweds first – before you go to the registry office when the bridegroom came to the bride’s house. This greeting with a blessing for a happy and long marriage, and tips on new life.
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the Child after the divorce – as the separation of parents affects children
The child when the parents live apart, you may choose for yourself the different models of behaviour – can be aggressive, truant, engage in fighting, throwing of school or to close themselves isolated from their peers. Divorce of parents is not only a crisis in the marriage , it is also shock and stress for the child who often blames himself for the end of love between mom and dad.
The effects of divorce on children
Divorce is not only the case of adults. The separation of parents and children experiencing. Divorce is a frequent reality for many families and, as with any crisis, entails the need to adapt to changes. However, the disintegration of the family should not mean pathology.
Problems children . parents are divorced, they often emerge not from the situation of divorce, although, of course, it is difficult to understand how still two loving people can leave. Most often the source of the problem children is anger, hatred and anger that accompany conflicts of parents. How a child copes with a difficult moment in life, depends mainly from his mom and dad.
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