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Mom, I’m scared!

I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.

At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.

“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.

I realized this later on tonight. The trouble was that although the girl and persuaded to climb the escalator, no one told her that it is normal Continue reading

Why the child does not sleep

Sometimes in the dream child behaves unusually, what scares parents. What are the causes of night anxiety and whether it is dangerous?

In the weak arms of Morpheus

The kid does not want to fall asleep or wakes up with difficulty and “noname”? He sleeps restlessly, not getting enough sleep, and then the whole day is in a bad mood? the “Infinite” the night gave way to a Sunny morning, but the kid is naughty, it all the time sleepy, he was listless and irritable. Obviously, it’s time to talk about sleep disorders in children.

Sleep disturbance in children

Frequently waking baby clouded night terrors are often more compelling to panic parents than himself. You go look in the nursery: he sleeps or gets up, walks, muttering something inarticulate. “Get up, count, we expect great things!” But crumbs, as they say, raise raised, and forgot to Wake up. Moreover, in this state, he looks very scared, his heartbeat quickens, he’s sweaty, hot — there is the so-called “autonomic storm”. However, all your fears kid soon forgets — they remain only in the memories of parents. And all this, if your child does not injure himself during such night “travel”, doesn’t need specific correction. A lot of anxiety Continue reading

The Education of girls.

Features of education of adolescent girls

It is quite clear that girls are different from boys, and not only superficially and by sex. Try to understand more specifically what is this difference and how to raise the girl properly, what are the features of the education of girls.

Believe that girls are much easier to raise than boys. Of course, while they are small, they are more obedient, docile, give less trouble to his parents. Of course, there are exceptions. Sometimes the girl has such a nature that it is easily boys will replace.

And here’s your lovely kind and obedient baby is growing up – here “pop up pitfalls.” All that you have not finished in childhood, manifests itself, usually in adolescence.

So what parents should definitely pay attention?

First, consider than the physiological development of girls is different from boys. Brain development in girls differently from boys. From little princesses to develop quickly left hemisphere is responsible for speech and communication. That’s why the girls begin to speak, read and write earlier than boys. And at school age they already dominated by the right hemisphere, in this regard, and thinking becomes intuitive – shaped, in contrast to boys who have more logical thinking.

The girls quickly get used to the new environment, because they are more emotionally resilient. Continue reading

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