Deciding that the best cure for baby selfishness will be the birth of a second child, parents begin to calculate the ideal age difference between children. Consider the advantages and disadvantages of each age interval.
Children close in age
Pros . Children grow and develop at the same time, two-year age difference is almost imperceptible: the kids have common friends, shared interests, Hobbies, they like the same toys. They are comfortable to play together, same age harmoniously coexist in the same room. The mother meanwhile is a little more time to themselves and household chores while the kids are passionate about cooperative games. According to leading psychologists, children pohadka rarely have to correct the behavior. They almost feel a sense of jealousy, first, because not yet finished selfish, and, secondly, are in need of friend with whom you can play.
The woman focused on building a career, wanting to reach some vertices may find your pregnancies, following each other, a significant advantage. At first she will feel that she has buried their professional ambitions in a pile Continue reading
Have you ever Noticed that almost all the subjects (poetry and prose, books and movies), describing the love, present it as the greatest happiness, which, however, goes hand in hand with suffering?
This is the law? And true love without suffering does not really exist?
Love brings suffering, if it is based on has his right to full possession of the other person. Here are some of the most important rules, compliance with which allows you to approach the understanding of what unconditional love and rid yourself of suffering.
Unconditional love begins with the ability to love a person and it’s uniqueness. And «uniqueness» – it’s not red hair, and a cheerful disposition, not reckless courage, and intelligence. What then? Man’s soul, her innermost aspirations.
This is the inner world that does not flaunt it, and watch out for himself and the nearest person. If you want to – it’s those moments of inspiration, which is experiencing a loved one, doing photography, or trying themselves in the art of versification, carving out figurines made of wood or trying to turn «Zhiguli» if not «Mercedes», then «Volkswagen». It is those moments of joy that he experiences in skydiving, while rafting on a mountain river or a quiet Continue reading
I feel that turn into ass-stupid. Every day I repeat to Yaroslav and Kate the same memorized phrases: “Yarik, hang up the jacket on a hanger”, “Katya, pick up toys», «Yarik, clean up on the table”, “Kate, put your pencils in the box”. Some household maniac, one word. But if I don’t turn this broken record here, our apartment will be buried under the rubble of toys, books, candy wrappers, bits, clothes. Because the children themselves can calmly live in such a mess.
One night I jumped up from a loud noise. It was coming from a child. It turned out that Jaroslav is not removed from his bed on the second floor a few machines, and at night the Armory fell out of bed son.
Recently I about five hours to restore order in the nursery. Carefully, spine to spine, folded books, cards son and his soldiers. Have collected a few pictures of the puzzles scattered daughter. Children sparkling clean. I’m only a couple hours away from home… All books, cards and puzzles were scattered, jumbled, on the floor, and the kids scissors cut a box of Christmas toys hidden until the next New year in the dressing room. But the most Continue reading