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The Child after the divorce

the Child after the divorce – as the separation of parents affects children

The child when the parents live apart, you may choose for yourself the different models of behaviour – can be aggressive, truant, engage in fighting, throwing of school or to close themselves isolated from their peers. Divorce of parents is not only a crisis in the marriage , it is also shock and stress for the child who often blames himself for the end of love between mom and dad.

The effects of divorce on children

Divorce is not only the case of adults. The separation of parents and children experiencing. Divorce is a frequent reality for many families and, as with any crisis, entails the need to adapt to changes. However, the disintegration of the family should not mean pathology.

Problems children . parents are divorced, they often emerge not from the situation of divorce, although, of course, it is difficult to understand how still two loving people can leave. Most often the source of the problem children is anger, hatred and anger that accompany conflicts of parents. How a child copes with a difficult moment in life, depends mainly from his mom and dad.

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Etiquette for kids: the rules of conduct at the table

To read, write, dance… Why not just have children to learn. And all this is necessary, this will need them later in adult life. Rules of conduct in society is not produced by themselves, they also learn. From the earliest years. To greet, say thank you, not to interrupt your elders. Not less important is the behavior at the table. To observe the rules of conduct during the meal it is necessary not only for aesthetic reasons, but primarily for the safety of the baby and avoid unpleasant situations. For example, if the child is able to use a fork, not playing it during the meal, the subject he will not hurt themselves or others sitting with him at the table. If you have time to teach their child not to swing on the chair, waving his arms at the table, there is a good chance that the trouble in the form of diffuse across the table soup you are not threatened.

So what exactly children rules of conduct at the table? They are the same as for adults. However, they can be called more simplistic. Perhaps the student do not need to know in what amounts and in what glasses to pour the liquor. As well as does not make sense to require a three year old child to properly use a knife and fork. But the basic rules every child should know.

Rules for children

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Fighter or “nerd” – how to raise a child?

The presence of own child any parent is tempting sometimes to think about the method, direction and character education. The realities of life often say that a more child to make a good soldier without fear and without reproach, than thin and intelligent man. How to deal with this dilemma?

Looking back, I often think about what the principles taught to me parents need to be honest, do not throw words to the wind, can’t let people bad-mouth middle, modesty is a virtue, for a friend do not mind However as I have matured my naivety, like the others, probably melted and the words spoken to my face, I began carefully to examine the implication for the information contained in the conversation, trying to see the true state of things – it was a student. And having entered the age of the worker, became to understand that not all “mom’s” principles work in my life. “Afloat” are not the cutest shy guy, but upstarts and cheek. So what is the conclusion – to be successful you need to “push”? Now I’m standing by the sandbox and looking at how the fat kid is pulling my daughter out of the hands of the bucket, think of how I could bring up? Let humbly give a bucket, Continue reading

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Fighter or "nerd" - how to raise a child?
The presence of own child any parent is tempting sometimes to think about the method, direction and character education. The realities of life often say that a more child to…

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