All children from time to time cry, absolutely healthy newborn baby cries in the middle of one to three hours daily. Why is the child crying? Crying is a way of communicating a small child, by which he gives us, the adults, know their needs.
Nature intended so that the cry of a baby stimulates the increase in the mother level of prolactin and oxytocin, hormones that stimulate the production of breast milk and its excretion from the chest.
Young parents sometimes find it difficult to understand why the child is crying: he is hungry, he is cold, he is bored, he needs a diaper change or he wants to get him on the handles? In the first days after birth, when you are not yet aware of his needs, this crying can irritate, annoy, or even lead to despair, but gradually you will begin to distinguish the different types of crying, and therefore will be able to immediately meet the needs of their child. Over time, your kid will learn other ways to communicate with parents: look into the eyes, to babble, to publish different sounds, stretch hands, smile.
In most cases, the baby screams, to show that he is uncomfortable: it is the only available method tries to achieve what he needs. From the following list Continue reading
About addiction of children to parents
The topic of conversation for parent meetings: “bad habits in children. What to do with them?”
This issue is relevant for parents of kindergarten age and Junior level students.
What is a “bad habit”?
Bad habit is a negative tendency that has become need and actions, in behavior. It is a pattern of behavior that prevent the child normally live and grow.
The most common bad habits is:
– thumb sucking or different subjects;
– obkushuvannya nails;
– picking your nose;
– swaying from side to side, etc.
Noticing your child’s bad habit, parents face a dilemma: to fight the habit, or leave it as is?
Paradoxically, the correct answer to both questions is “no”.
You can’t fight the habit, because it’s the result of some unmet need. But, on the other hand, the habit cannot be ignored, because it, again a result of some unmet need.
Thus, for the first time seeing that your child sucks his thumb or bites her nails do not make the baby remark. And especially do not use punitive measures type masania fingers mustard, whipping by hand and / or severe penalties. Tell yourself: “This is an occasion to reflect me as a parent about what is happening with my child”.
Bad habits in children – what are they? Why are there bad habits in children? And whether to deal with them? Children usually know about what bad habits they have – apparently, the adults in the family explain it to them repeatedly.
And the children try to deal with them – sometimes it works, sometimes not.
So what are the habits of childhood can be classified as bad?
Habits of a person are those actions that a person commits first sporadically, then more and more, and then these actions are performed automatically.
At the same time people do not think. do I need to do it or not, because such action is logged into the habit.
There are good habits – wash in the morning, wash your hands before eating or brushing your teeth morning and night. And there are addictions bad, although not everyone agrees.
The idea of the harmfulness of certain habits depends on how civilized or cultural society of the country. Sometimes the same habits in one country are considered bad, but in other places it seems to be normal.
Bad habits in children and bad manners
However, most parents, watching their children say that their children still have those or other bad manners, but mom and dad do not always know how such addictions to fight.
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