Bad habits in children – what are they? Why are there bad habits in children? And whether to deal with them? Children usually know about what bad habits they have – apparently, the adults in the family explain it to them repeatedly.
And the children try to deal with them – sometimes it works, sometimes not.
So what are the habits of childhood can be classified as bad?
Habits of a person are those actions that a person commits first sporadically, then more and more, and then these actions are performed automatically.
At the same time people do not think. do I need to do it or not, because such action is logged into the habit.
There are good habits – wash in the morning, wash your hands before eating or brushing your teeth morning and night. And there are addictions bad, although not everyone agrees.
The idea of the harmfulness of certain habits depends on how civilized or cultural society of the country. Sometimes the same habits in one country are considered bad, but in other places it seems to be normal.
Bad habits in children and bad manners
However, most parents, watching their children say that their children still have those or other bad manners, but mom and dad do not always know how such addictions to fight.
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About it in polite society do not speak. Don’t tell over a Cup of coffee, the feeling – or rather, his absence – quickly trying to cover up a polite smile and hide away from prying eyes. «I do not love their parents” sounds like a confession in a terrible crime.
Why this is so
Once we first take offense to dad and mom. Someone brought up in Spartan conditions, someone took out a daily fatigue, someone suffered from neglect and constant employment of parents. Under-loved, unhappy children, who for years harbored resentment, and then just too tired to fight for parental attention, – this one category.
The other – those who had enough of the excessive care and love. Psychologists have many clients who happened to grow up with my mother and grandmother and from experience to experience unbearable heaviness of their love. They dream of escape from the family, but the sense of duty makes to stay. They are constantly taught how to live, what to think, whom to choose as friends. And, barely openevsys, these children run away – first in a student dormitory, then to another city… the country… on another planet. Call out only on holidays and life are already familiar with Continue reading