I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.
At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.
“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.
I realized this later on tonight. The trouble was that although the girl and persuaded to climb the escalator, no one told her that it is normal Continue reading
All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.
In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?
A promise not to love
“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”
The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!
^ Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.
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Many parents know how sometimes just to learn with your child in the poem . All children read poems on morning, and your kid poem again not given. Well as does not remember his words, and the words did not add up in the lines.
This demonstrates poor memory of the child. And without a good memory well in school or does not do! Then an urgent need to rectify the situation. Memory there are many games and exercises but the most effective is the memorization of verses. And the child can’t stand them and teach verses flatly refuses. How to escape from this vicious circle?
I have a few ideas, I would be glad if you will assist in o archivaria verses with the child . All these techniques were successful practice with my son and the kids in kindergarten. Children with good memory too poems to teach better in a playful way. The more the merrier.
Teach poetry in between
If your child and hear, neither of which did not wish about memorizing verses, don’t insist. Offer to go on the contrary, as Grigory Oster in his “bad advice”. Nothing to teach, why it is still.
Instead, invite a child to engage in his favorite activity: drawing, puzzles, collect designer, paint, lay out the mosaic Continue reading