families

Thematic meeting for parents

All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.

In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?

A promise not to love

“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”

The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!

^ Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.

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The Child after the divorce

the Child after the divorce – as the separation of parents affects children

The child when the parents live apart, you may choose for yourself the different models of behaviour – can be aggressive, truant, engage in fighting, throwing of school or to close themselves isolated from their peers. Divorce of parents is not only a crisis in the marriage , it is also shock and stress for the child who often blames himself for the end of love between mom and dad.

The effects of divorce on children

Divorce is not only the case of adults. The separation of parents and children experiencing. Divorce is a frequent reality for many families and, as with any crisis, entails the need to adapt to changes. However, the disintegration of the family should not mean pathology.

Problems children . parents are divorced, they often emerge not from the situation of divorce, although, of course, it is difficult to understand how still two loving people can leave. Most often the source of the problem children is anger, hatred and anger that accompany conflicts of parents. How a child copes with a difficult moment in life, depends mainly from his mom and dad.

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The effect on children of their environment

Archpriest Vladislav Sveshnikov, elder paisios of the Holy mountain, the priest Alexander Christmas.

Small children should be brought to communion regularly, to be sanctified, because, unfortunately, they grow in poor, spiritually unhealthy environment.

Elder Paisios Of The Holy Mountain

When people, and especially children, will visit the Church, they calm down and become more peaceful, but after some of modern cinema or video session, where the blood flows, where twenty corpses on the screen showed, and then they all discuss it, screaming, hands waving, excited. And no wonder then fighting, beating each other because they have these instincts come out, they unwittingly repeat all he had seen. And here it is involuntary copying is a very serious thing, because “out of sight, out of mind”. With the monk, the monk will be elected will be elected, with innocent innocent will, the shrew will be defiled. And one of the aspects of education is the selection of an appropriate atmosphere, appropriate for friends, colleagues and so on. We were picked up communication for our children, was not allowed in there, where would they be without us, went and went and with them took them, where there are children.

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Influence of parental attitudes on children's personality development
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Fighter or "nerd" - how to raise a child?
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