Today I want to think about the theme first, unrequited love. Namely, how can parents help a teen who doesn’t know how to survive first love?
First love happens at the age of 13-16 years. Time in the life of a teenager and already fragile. But if the love is unrequited or comes the moment of the breakup – a long and painful experiences can not be avoided.
This is the case when parents can either win the favor of their child, providing him with proper support, or to hurt him even more.
Most of the parents watching the experiences of his child, trying to help, but often this “help” only makes things worse. What seems so insignificant with all those years, at the age of 14 seems to be the biggest tragedy. It is important to remember this always.
How to survive your first love? A few tips to help parents:
1 . Let the child calm and understanding. He must feel that he is safe that houses his love and ready to listen. During this period, the child is extremely important a feeling of a reliable backup that can only be provided by parents.
2 . Avoid popular councils, and it is these Continue reading
All parents want their child did well in school, was able to make their own decisions, learned to analyze situations and make correct conclusions. But all this to a greater extent depends on the parents. Much of his time and attention you pay to the development of the child . Check out some practical tips that will help you relax and spend time with their children.
Play outdoor games on the air
In our body the third part of the total use of oxygen sent to the brain. The more oxygen enters, the more actively works and develops the brain. Oxygen saturation is more intense when the active dyatelnosti. American psychologists in the course of the studies found that physically active children part of the brain responsible for memory and learning . was about 12% more developed than in inactive. Thus, scientists have proven that the brain develops better in those children who are more physically active.
Read him every day
If you are reading to their children from an early age, you can help them significantly ahead of their peers in reading when they start school. Continue reading
What to do with a child’s greed? How do parents know when on the court, once again, the baby refused to share the machine, or scoop with a friend in the sandbox.
Always so obedient and docile boy, or affectionate girl, suddenly stomp your feet, hiding the machine, or a favorite doll behind his back and run away. The first reaction of the parents, in most cases, it’s a shame. Still, in their family is growing MEANIE! Mom asks, persuades, and often just power snatches kid a treasured toy, and gives the child who demanded her. Correctly enters the mother? Because the child in 2 -3 years always egomaniac, and talk about greed, as the trait in this age it is still very early. For the baby, in the first place – he himself, and all the other people, only an addition. A significant role in the prioritization of play and the parents. The child often is the center around which revolves the life of all other family members. And how can you demand from him willingly and unquestioningly to give his toy to another child?
In addition, at this age, children are very sensitive to parting with their belongings. Toy for baby, exactly the same thing for personal use, as for my mother, for example, lipstick or favorite sunglasses. You do not give your glasses a stranger, or even a familiar girl who will Continue reading