All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.
In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?
A promise not to love
“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”
The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!
^ Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.
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Children is a special room. Every parent strives to make it a truly beautiful, comfortable, convenient and safe. A special role for children’s plays textile design space in General and Windows in particular. What should be the curtains in the nursery . What factors, in addition to the design affect the choice of children’s curtains? All the important aspects and nuances – from the practical to the psychological – assembled in our article.
Curtains: main requirements
In this room the real magic happens. Here grows a new person, growing up, exploring the world, fantasizing, engaging and communicating with friends. For this you need a comfortable and safe space. Like any piece of furniture designed for children’s room, curtains are required to meet certain requirements .
They should have an antistatic effect. Simply put, not to attract dust. This not only helps keep a neat look, but will not create a nourishing environment for the development of allergies.
It is desirable that the curtains were made from natural fibers. Then they’ll be safe for the health of children. Typically, in a modern city it is difficult to find interior design and decorating materials, which would also be strong, durable and natural. In the boy’s room and you can use a synthetic Continue reading
How can she lie, looking me straight in the eye? The father of ten girls
In our relationship something goes wrong. I don’t understand why she can’t do I say it? If she trusted me, we would speak the truth. Mother of eight year old girls
Lying is one of the biggest problems in the child’s behavior. When you discover that your child is lying, it is not only shock you, but also hurts, Angers, puzzling and disappointing.
Nine-year-old Shelly Jay and her mom came to me a second time. Mrs. Jay in a rage told me that since our last meeting Shelly lied to her twice already. After the first lie mother as punishment for the week taken from the room Shelley TV. But two days later, Shelly lied again, explaining why so late coming home from school.
Until my mother told me, Shelly shyly sat in the chair, but suddenly jumped up and shouted: “it is not fair to take away my TV because I ate the cake!”
Her mother on the same raised voice said, “I took it not because you ate a brownie. I punished you because you lied. I just can’t stand lies.” Shelly didn’t want to repent and threw it in the answer: “And you’re lying. I know adults lie too”.
And, of course, Shelley was right. Not only politicians lie. We all, in varying degrees, Continue reading