Deciding that the best cure for baby selfishness will be the birth of a second child, parents begin to calculate the ideal age difference between children. Consider the advantages and disadvantages of each age interval.
Children close in age
Pros . Children grow and develop at the same time, two-year age difference is almost imperceptible: the kids have common friends, shared interests, Hobbies, they like the same toys. They are comfortable to play together, same age harmoniously coexist in the same room. The mother meanwhile is a little more time to themselves and household chores while the kids are passionate about cooperative games. According to leading psychologists, children pohadka rarely have to correct the behavior. They almost feel a sense of jealousy, first, because not yet finished selfish, and, secondly, are in need of friend with whom you can play.
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All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.
In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?
A promise not to love
“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”
The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!
^ Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.
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Even if you’ve always dreamed of having a daughter, the reality may be completely different from what you expected. Here’s what you need to know about raising girls.
When you learned you were expecting a daughter, you probably gave yourself a pedicure, or was at some party, or trying on dresses. Because you’re a girl, you probably thought that you will encounter the same issues in the education of his daughter. But the truth is, your little girl will be a few surprises for you. The desire to collect things obsessively to only wear all pink… let’s take a look with one eye on your future.
It may be even more «devchonochny» than you
Even if you have done everything possible to create a gender-neutral space for games, filled with cars, trains and other «malchikovyy» toys, don’t be surprised if your daughter will still develop a passion for princesses and dolls, the Barbie and the pink ballerina in the music box. No matter how much you try to fight this stereotype, the combination of a clear behavior with smart education may even surpass your efforts.
She will borrow your stuff
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