Too many people, sounds and stimuli. Everything is so unpredictable, and therefore dangerous. Go! To hide! Closed! To close, in order not to hear. Silent, so that you are left alone – alone with himself.
With a blank wall, erected by the child for self-defense, face perhaps all parents of children with autism. From whom he protected? How to set the communication through the wall?
The first thing that comes to mind, if we are talking about autism, is full of himself kid. What other States are characterized by autistic children and are they always the same?
First of all, like all children, kids with autism spectrum disorders differ from each other, have their own character, habits. Features of autistic symptoms is very individual.
The unifying feature of these children is the difficulty of social interaction, communication and stereotyped behavior. People with autism are difficult to understand other people. Because of this, communication with family members can be especially serious for them. While we intuitively understand how to communicate with each other, people with autism, this intuitive knowledge is missing.
Despite the obvious peculiarities in the behavior of outwardly autistic people look like ordinary children, and therefore, the surrounding people often perceive them as rude and spoiled, whereas it is fundamentally Continue reading
About addiction of children to parents
The topic of conversation for parent meetings: “bad habits in children. What to do with them?”
This issue is relevant for parents of kindergarten age and Junior level students.
What is a “bad habit”?
Bad habit is a negative tendency that has become need and actions, in behavior. It is a pattern of behavior that prevent the child normally live and grow.
The most common bad habits is:
– thumb sucking or different subjects;
– obkushuvannya nails;
– picking your nose;
– swaying from side to side, etc.
Noticing your child’s bad habit, parents face a dilemma: to fight the habit, or leave it as is?
Paradoxically, the correct answer to both questions is “no”.
You can’t fight the habit, because it’s the result of some unmet need. But, on the other hand, the habit cannot be ignored, because it, again a result of some unmet need.
Thus, for the first time seeing that your child sucks his thumb or bites her nails do not make the baby remark. And especially do not use punitive measures type masania fingers mustard, whipping by hand and / or severe penalties. Tell yourself: “This is an occasion to reflect me as a parent about what is happening with my child”.