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Mom, I’m scared!

I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.

At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.

“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.

I realized this later on tonight. The trouble was that although the girl and persuaded to climb the escalator, no one told her that it is normal Continue reading

Congratulations to the newlyweds from parents

There is no doubt that congratulations from parents at the wedding of their children are sincere and come from the heart, so not so important, what they will say.

But if through your words relatives will be able to convey to the guests all the feelings that overwhelm them, they are brilliant eloquence.

Like any other greetings, wishes and farewell from parents should not be too long and easy to read, otherwise it’s not all will understand and appreciate.

Should try to find concise words that will help to emphasize the brightness of thoughts. Congratulations from parents at the wedding of the daughter or son can be both in prose and in verse, you can select music or lighting effects, tentatively agreed with the master of ceremonies.

Hope that wishes will come to mind at the right moment is not worth it, better to prepare in advance. Anyway, whichever option greetings parents choose, their words will be the most important for the newlyweds.

A BLESSING FROM THE BRIDE’S PARENTS

The bride’s parents have the honour to congratulate the newlyweds first – before you go to the registry office when the bridegroom came to the bride’s house. This greeting with a blessing for a happy and long marriage, and tips on new life.

This Continue reading

Bad habits in children

About addiction of children to parents

The topic of conversation for parent meetings: “bad habits in children. What to do with them?”

This issue is relevant for parents of kindergarten age and Junior level students.

What is a “bad habit”?

Bad habit is a negative tendency that has become need and actions, in behavior. It is a pattern of behavior that prevent the child normally live and grow.

The most common bad habits is:

– thumb sucking or different subjects;

– obkushuvannya nails;

– picking your nose;

– swaying from side to side, etc.

Noticing your child’s bad habit, parents face a dilemma: to fight the habit, or leave it as is?

Paradoxically, the correct answer to both questions is “no”.

You can’t fight the habit, because it’s the result of some unmet need. But, on the other hand, the habit cannot be ignored, because it, again a result of some unmet need.

Thus, for the first time seeing that your child sucks his thumb or bites her nails do not make the baby remark. And especially do not use punitive measures type masania fingers mustard, whipping by hand and / or severe penalties. Tell yourself: “This is an occasion to reflect me as a parent about what is happening with my child”.

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The Ideal age difference between children is About love
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I love my parents sounds like a confession in a terrible crime
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