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Unconditional love is

Have you ever Noticed that almost all the subjects (poetry and prose, books and movies), describing the love, present it as the greatest happiness, which, however, goes hand in hand with suffering?

This is the law? And true love without suffering does not really exist?

Love brings suffering, if it is based on has his right to full possession of the other person. Here are some of the most important rules, compliance with which allows you to approach the understanding of what unconditional love and rid yourself of suffering.

Unconditional love begins with the ability to love a person and it’s uniqueness. And «uniqueness» – it’s not red hair, and a cheerful disposition, not reckless courage, and intelligence. What then? Man’s soul, her innermost aspirations.

This is the inner world that does not flaunt it, and watch out for himself and the nearest person. If you want to – it’s those moments of inspiration, which is experiencing a loved one, doing photography, or trying themselves in the art of versification, carving out figurines made of wood or trying to turn «Zhiguli» if not «Mercedes», then «Volkswagen». It is those moments of joy that he experiences in skydiving, while rafting on a mountain river or a quiet Continue reading

Why the baby is crying.

All children from time to time cry, absolutely healthy newborn baby cries in the middle of one to three hours daily. Why is the child crying? Crying is a way of communicating a small child, by which he gives us, the adults, know their needs.

Nature intended so that the cry of a baby stimulates the increase in the mother level of prolactin and oxytocin, hormones that stimulate the production of breast milk and its excretion from the chest.

Young parents sometimes find it difficult to understand why the child is crying: he is hungry, he is cold, he is bored, he needs a diaper change or he wants to get him on the handles? In the first days after birth, when you are not yet aware of his needs, this crying can irritate, annoy, or even lead to despair, but gradually you will begin to distinguish the different types of crying, and therefore will be able to immediately meet the needs of their child. Over time, your kid will learn other ways to communicate with parents: look into the eyes, to babble, to publish different sounds, stretch hands, smile.

In most cases, the baby screams, to show that he is uncomfortable: it is the only available method tries to achieve what he needs. From the following list Continue reading

Aggression in young children

Many children go through a period between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “”I am angry” or “I want this.”

Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.

If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.

Care of children with diseases of the nervous system

Show attention. If you see your child, not yet begun to walk to school, hit another, first go to his sacrifice. Raise a hurt child and say, “Igor didn’t mean to offend you.” Then hug him, kiss and spend out of the room. Thus you deprive your attention the child, Continue reading

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