I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.
At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.
“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.
I realized this later on tonight. The trouble was that although the girl and persuaded to climb the escalator, no one told her that it is normal Continue reading
Features of education of adolescent girls
It is quite clear that girls are different from boys, and not only superficially and by sex. Try to understand more specifically what is this difference and how to raise the girl properly, what are the features of the education of girls.
Believe that girls are much easier to raise than boys. Of course, while they are small, they are more obedient, docile, give less trouble to his parents. Of course, there are exceptions. Sometimes the girl has such a nature that it is easily boys will replace.
And here’s your lovely kind and obedient baby is growing up – here “pop up pitfalls.” All that you have not finished in childhood, manifests itself, usually in adolescence.
So what parents should definitely pay attention?
First, consider than the physiological development of girls is different from boys. Brain development in girls differently from boys. From little princesses to develop quickly left hemisphere is responsible for speech and communication. That’s why the girls begin to speak, read and write earlier than boys. And at school age they already dominated by the right hemisphere, in this regard, and thinking becomes intuitive – shaped, in contrast to boys who have more logical thinking.
The girls quickly get used to the new environment, because they are more emotionally resilient. Continue reading
All children from time to time cry, absolutely healthy newborn baby cries in the middle of one to three hours daily. Why is the child crying? Crying is a way of communicating a small child, by which he gives us, the adults, know their needs.
Nature intended so that the cry of a baby stimulates the increase in the mother level of prolactin and oxytocin, hormones that stimulate the production of breast milk and its excretion from the chest.
Young parents sometimes find it difficult to understand why the child is crying: he is hungry, he is cold, he is bored, he needs a diaper change or he wants to get him on the handles? In the first days after birth, when you are not yet aware of his needs, this crying can irritate, annoy, or even lead to despair, but gradually you will begin to distinguish the different types of crying, and therefore will be able to immediately meet the needs of their child. Over time, your kid will learn other ways to communicate with parents: look into the eyes, to babble, to publish different sounds, stretch hands, smile.
In most cases, the baby screams, to show that he is uncomfortable: it is the only available method tries to achieve what he needs. From the following list Continue reading