Today I want to think about the theme first, unrequited love. Namely, how can parents help a teen who doesn’t know how to survive first love?
First love happens at the age of 13-16 years. Time in the life of a teenager and already fragile. But if the love is unrequited or comes the moment of the breakup – a long and painful experiences can not be avoided.
This is the case when parents can either win the favor of their child, providing him with proper support, or to hurt him even more.
Most of the parents watching the experiences of his child, trying to help, but often this “help” only makes things worse. What seems so insignificant with all those years, at the age of 14 seems to be the biggest tragedy. It is important to remember this always.
How to survive your first love? A few tips to help parents:
1 . Let the child calm and understanding. He must feel that he is safe that houses his love and ready to listen. During this period, the child is extremely important a feeling of a reliable backup that can only be provided by parents.
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All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.
In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?
A promise not to love
“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”
The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!
^ Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.
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Many parents know how sometimes just to learn with your child in the poem . All children read poems on morning, and your kid poem again not given. Well as does not remember his words, and the words did not add up in the lines.
This demonstrates poor memory of the child. And without a good memory well in school or does not do! Then an urgent need to rectify the situation. Memory there are many games and exercises but the most effective is the memorization of verses. And the child can’t stand them and teach verses flatly refuses. How to escape from this vicious circle?
I have a few ideas, I would be glad if you will assist in o archivaria verses with the child . All these techniques were successful practice with my son and the kids in kindergarten. Children with good memory too poems to teach better in a playful way. The more the merrier.
Teach poetry in between
If your child and hear, neither of which did not wish about memorizing verses, don’t insist. Offer to go on the contrary, as Grigory Oster in his “bad advice”. Nothing to teach, why it is still.
Instead, invite a child to engage in his favorite activity: drawing, puzzles, collect designer, paint, lay out the mosaic Continue reading