How can she lie, looking me straight in the eye? The father of ten girls
In our relationship something goes wrong. I don’t understand why she can’t do I say it? If she trusted me, we would speak the truth. Mother of eight year old girls
Lying is one of the biggest problems in the child’s behavior. When you discover that your child is lying, it is not only shock you, but also hurts, Angers, puzzling and disappointing.
Nine-year-old Shelly Jay and her mom came to me a second time. Mrs. Jay in a rage told me that since our last meeting Shelly lied to her twice already. After the first lie mother as punishment for the week taken from the room Shelley TV. But two days later, Shelly lied again, explaining why so late coming home from school.
Until my mother told me, Shelly shyly sat in the chair, but suddenly jumped up and shouted: “it is not fair to take away my TV because I ate the cake!”
Her mother on the same raised voice said, “I took it not because you ate a brownie. I punished you because you lied. I just can’t stand lies.” Shelly didn’t want to repent and threw it in the answer: “And you’re lying. I know adults lie too”.
And, of course, Shelley was right. Not only politicians lie. We all, in varying degrees, Continue reading
Bad habits in children – what are they? Why are there bad habits in children? And whether to deal with them? Children usually know about what bad habits they have – apparently, the adults in the family explain it to them repeatedly.
And the children try to deal with them – sometimes it works, sometimes not.
So what are the habits of childhood can be classified as bad?
Habits of a person are those actions that a person commits first sporadically, then more and more, and then these actions are performed automatically.
At the same time people do not think. do I need to do it or not, because such action is logged into the habit.
There are good habits – wash in the morning, wash your hands before eating or brushing your teeth morning and night. And there are addictions bad, although not everyone agrees.
The idea of the harmfulness of certain habits depends on how civilized or cultural society of the country. Sometimes the same habits in one country are considered bad, but in other places it seems to be normal.
Bad habits in children and bad manners
However, most parents, watching their children say that their children still have those or other bad manners, but mom and dad do not always know how such addictions to fight.
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To read, write, dance… Why not just have children to learn. And all this is necessary, this will need them later in adult life. Rules of conduct in society is not produced by themselves, they also learn. From the earliest years. To greet, say thank you, not to interrupt your elders. Not less important is the behavior at the table. To observe the rules of conduct during the meal it is necessary not only for aesthetic reasons, but primarily for the safety of the baby and avoid unpleasant situations. For example, if the child is able to use a fork, not playing it during the meal, the subject he will not hurt themselves or others sitting with him at the table. If you have time to teach their child not to swing on the chair, waving his arms at the table, there is a good chance that the trouble in the form of diffuse across the table soup you are not threatened.
So what exactly children rules of conduct at the table? They are the same as for adults. However, they can be called more simplistic. Perhaps the student do not need to know in what amounts and in what glasses to pour the liquor. As well as does not make sense to require a three year old child to properly use a knife and fork. But the basic rules every child should know.
Rules for children
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Even if you’ve always dreamed of having a daughter, the reality may be completely different from what you expected. Here’s what you need to know about raising girls.
When you learned you were expecting a daughter, you probably gave yourself a pedicure, or was at some party, or trying on dresses. Because you’re a girl, you probably thought that you will encounter the same issues in the education of his daughter. But the truth is, your little girl will be a few surprises for you. The desire to collect things obsessively to only wear all pink… let’s take a look with one eye on your future.
It may be even more «devchonochny» than you
Even if you have done everything possible to create a gender-neutral space for games, filled with cars, trains and other «malchikovyy» toys, don’t be surprised if your daughter will still develop a passion for princesses and dolls, the Barbie and the pink ballerina in the music box. No matter how much you try to fight this stereotype, the combination of a clear behavior with smart education may even surpass your efforts.
She will borrow your stuff
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The presence of own child any parent is tempting sometimes to think about the method, direction and character education. The realities of life often say that a more child to make a good soldier without fear and without reproach, than thin and intelligent man. How to deal with this dilemma?
Looking back, I often think about what the principles taught to me parents need to be honest, do not throw words to the wind, can’t let people bad-mouth middle, modesty is a virtue, for a friend do not mind However as I have matured my naivety, like the others, probably melted and the words spoken to my face, I began carefully to examine the implication for the information contained in the conversation, trying to see the true state of things – it was a student. And having entered the age of the worker, became to understand that not all “mom’s” principles work in my life. “Afloat” are not the cutest shy guy, but upstarts and cheek. So what is the conclusion – to be successful you need to “push”? Now I’m standing by the sandbox and looking at how the fat kid is pulling my daughter out of the hands of the bucket, think of how I could bring up? Let humbly give a bucket, Continue reading