Even if you’ve always dreamed of having a daughter, the reality may be completely different from what you expected. Here’s what you need to know about raising girls.
When you learned you were expecting a daughter, you probably gave yourself a pedicure, or was at some party, or trying on dresses. Because you’re a girl, you probably thought that you will encounter the same issues in the education of his daughter. But the truth is, your little girl will be a few surprises for you. The desire to collect things obsessively to only wear all pink… let’s take a look with one eye on your future.
It may be even more «devchonochny» than you
Even if you have done everything possible to create a gender-neutral space for games, filled with cars, trains and other «malchikovyy» toys, don’t be surprised if your daughter will still develop a passion for princesses and dolls, the Barbie and the pink ballerina in the music box. No matter how much you try to fight this stereotype, the combination of a clear behavior with smart education may even surpass your efforts.
She will borrow your stuff
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The presence of own child any parent is tempting sometimes to think about the method, direction and character education. The realities of life often say that a more child to make a good soldier without fear and without reproach, than thin and intelligent man. How to deal with this dilemma?
Looking back, I often think about what the principles taught to me parents need to be honest, do not throw words to the wind, can’t let people bad-mouth middle, modesty is a virtue, for a friend do not mind However as I have matured my naivety, like the others, probably melted and the words spoken to my face, I began carefully to examine the implication for the information contained in the conversation, trying to see the true state of things – it was a student. And having entered the age of the worker, became to understand that not all “mom’s” principles work in my life. “Afloat” are not the cutest shy guy, but upstarts and cheek. So what is the conclusion – to be successful you need to “push”? Now I’m standing by the sandbox and looking at how the fat kid is pulling my daughter out of the hands of the bucket, think of how I could bring up? Let humbly give a bucket, Continue reading
The influence of parental attitudes on children’s personality development
Mental life is extremely difficult, because the mind is composed of two mutually determinant components: conscious and unconscious — conscious and subconscious.
In the sphere of the unconscious is important fixed relationship to ourselves, to others and to life in General. Define this set and psychological protection. Parents are especially important to understand the role in the emotional and personal development of the child playing parental attitudes.
Install arise on a daily basis. Some random, weak, other principled, consistent and strong, are formed from early childhood, and the earlier they learned, their effect is stronger. Once emerged, the installation does not disappear at a favorable moment of a child’s life affects his behavior and feelings. Weapon against negative attitudes is kontrastnosti, and constantly supported by the positive manifestations on the part of parents and others. For example, kontrastnosti “You can!” wins setting “Helpless, nothing you can’t do it!”, but only if the child will actually receive confirmation of their abilities in real-life activities (teaching, drawing, modeling, singing, Continue reading