Somehow in one of the shows on TV showed the nursing home. Many inhabitants of the house were brought here by their children and left in the care of the state. The headmistress says that gradually, the children rarely visit their parents. At first, the old people are outraged, offended, then accept, i.e., as expected, move on the scale of emotions to apathy and death. And interestingly, for 25 years, her work was never a time that someone said it I raised these children. No one has claimed responsibility!
The situation according to our observations, is very characteristic: every parent believes the duty of children to provide him with the attention, support and care in old age. But you ask those who think so, what they did in the process of bringing to this character trait is caring and consideration for others? Very simple truth is that will create is what you get. Why is it that people voluntarily take on this is not very easy to wear: it is well known that with the elderly harder than with a baby. Only Moody, irritable dad will not put in the corner, not forced to be obedient as a child.
So how justified such an expectation? Let’s try to understand who is who and what should. It is useful to look at the classic analogy: what comes first – the chicken Continue reading
10 laws of parenting
With the birth of the baby, we as parents, adults, are his full authority. He loves us just for what we got. Parents – is the most precious thing in the life of a child. What would we do, would like to it is not treated, the baby will still love us. Therefore, he believed that all our actions and deeds are the only true, correct both for themselves and for the world. So the kid catches every glance of the mother, every father’s gesture, mimics the facial expressions, movements, way of life. He unconsciously absorbs from us demeanor, our tastes and attitudes, our moral values and moral standards.
The education of the child – it is, above all, educating yourself!
The law of imitation
• Treat the baby exactly as you want it to treat You in your old age.
• Their behaviour, attitude to life, we tell the child about the world, about people.
• We should fill our lives and the baby the most beautiful images, brings light and beauty.
• Children perceive mainly what we do, not what we say.
• Children – our most important teachers!
The law of unconditional love
• Definitely take the baby – it means to love him not for his actions, the words, not because he is smart, beautiful and so on, but for the fact Continue reading
In the first year, children often cry at bedtime. Studies show that 30% of children disturbed sleep. As a consequence, there are problems with night waking, falling asleep and changing the sleep mode. These reasons appear in children at preschool age and lead to hyperactivity in the children’s behavior, depression and mental disorders.
Causes of crying child
Baby crying before sleep can be explained by the fact that during waking hours it is oversaturated information and at bedtime he needs to throw out the accumulated reserve of energy and emotions. Causes of crying child is different. And often the child cries before going to sleep not because he is hungry or in pain, and only by the fact that, not just weeping, he won’t be able to sleep. Many are crying because the light was too bright or they hear loud sounds. Why need to protect him from these stimuli.
Why the child is crying before bedtime
Why the baby is crying at bedtime
If the child is crying for no reason, do you think we should make sure first that it hurts nothing. If the child is a newborn, the main cause tears and bad restless sleep are colic. What really is a dream in this case. Here can help special drops, massage the tummy. Continue reading