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How to respond to the whims of a sick child?

He had a fever, his throat was red, nose, rash. And immediately fell anxieties and worries, bad mood, lowered his hands. “It would be better, I got sick!” Probably every mother knows this phrase, thrown into despair.

During illness crumbs (no matter what age!) parents are almost always faced with the question: “How to respond to whims?”. This is because the disease often makes the baby cranky, and his whims, quirks turn into tyranny against parents.

On the one hand, it is clear that if the child is sick, he needs more attention, affection and care. Mom should always be nearby, and not only because it is necessary from a medical point of view, but also because it genuinely sorry. You are near, because I sympathize with him and want to somehow ease his pain, anguish and suffering. How come they have strength and patience. You do not be lazy often to feed and change him, if he’s sweating. You are willing to do other beverage or food, if he shows his displeasure. You buy him a new toy, once again happy. You constantly and carefully inquire about his health.

However, on the other hand, children very quickly get used to such treatment. They very soon learn how to get pleasure from illness and to evoke the sympathy. As a result, their ability to independently solve their own problems does not develop, like a muscle, which is not in use. Continue reading

The Education of girls.

Features of education of adolescent girls

It is quite clear that girls are different from boys, and not only superficially and by sex. Try to understand more specifically what is this difference and how to raise the girl properly, what are the features of the education of girls.

Believe that girls are much easier to raise than boys. Of course, while they are small, they are more obedient, docile, give less trouble to his parents. Of course, there are exceptions. Sometimes the girl has such a nature that it is easily boys will replace.

And here’s your lovely kind and obedient baby is growing up – here “pop up pitfalls.” All that you have not finished in childhood, manifests itself, usually in adolescence.

So what parents should definitely pay attention?

First, consider than the physiological development of girls is different from boys. Brain development in girls differently from boys. From little princesses to develop quickly left hemisphere is responsible for speech and communication. That’s why the girls begin to speak, read and write earlier than boys. And at school age they already dominated by the right hemisphere, in this regard, and thinking becomes intuitive – shaped, in contrast to boys who have more logical thinking.

The girls quickly get used to the new environment, because they are more emotionally resilient. Continue reading

The psychology of a happy life

You are going to marry. Re. You even forgot about the previous negative experience, but still there is one “but”. Then you were a free woman, and now you first mom. Or is it in the second. How to behave, what to tell the child what to call the new family member? That’s about it, now will be discussed.

Of course, the new composition of your family is and worries, and problems. But they have solutions. So, look:

Mom:

Nothing prevents you to remain a good mother and again to feel loved by a woman and wife. Baby needs a happy mom. The only thing you should not do is to rush headlong into the maelstrom of a new marriage. Remember, the failed your previous relationship, analyze the most frequent quarrels. Maybe you fought mainly because your irregular working hours? Or a new Beau – a philanderer, and the ex-husband? Would it then good your new life? Rate chosen objectively. Whether he is ready for life together, does all the responsibility? And only answering positively to all the questions, tell your child about the changes in your family.

Child:

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