Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way. This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.
Itself to cry, do not be ashamed and not harmful. Good to cry from joy, to cry at the funeral, where appropriate and customary. But in other situations where children and women can cry, men do not. Men don’t cry, because for them it is usually pointless, and to be boys, we have a strong and reasonable people.
This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.
Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they Continue reading
10 laws of parenting
With the birth of the baby, we as parents, adults, are his full authority. He loves us just for what we got. Parents – is the most precious thing in the life of a child. What would we do, would like to it is not treated, the baby will still love us. Therefore, he believed that all our actions and deeds are the only true, correct both for themselves and for the world. So the kid catches every glance of the mother, every father’s gesture, mimics the facial expressions, movements, way of life. He unconsciously absorbs from us demeanor, our tastes and attitudes, our moral values and moral standards.
The education of the child – it is, above all, educating yourself!
The law of imitation
• Treat the baby exactly as you want it to treat You in your old age.
• Their behaviour, attitude to life, we tell the child about the world, about people.
• We should fill our lives and the baby the most beautiful images, brings light and beauty.
• Children perceive mainly what we do, not what we say.
• Children – our most important teachers!
The law of unconditional love
• Definitely take the baby – it means to love him not for his actions, the words, not because he is smart, beautiful and so on, but for the fact Continue reading
Honoring parents is the first duty of children. Even in pre-Christian times, all peoples inviolable rule was that the youngest always revered and respected elders. Especially the children of their parents.
FILIAL piety requires, first of all, nature itself: thanks to the parents because we are called to life. And for this one needs to appreciate mother and father. And not only for that. His parents raised us, educated, caring, and vigilantly watched over every step, and helped when we had need of assistance. Moved in his heart the greatest grief, hardship, illness, failure. And, of course, all this teaches children to honor, to respect their parents.
In Scripture we can find many examples of love of parents to their children. And even the vices of children, their incorrect actions of maternal and paternal love can forgive them. Therefore, children must remember this and try to be thankful to our parents. Grievously insulted Absalom his father, prophet and king David, who rebelled against him with his unworthy subjects. But listen to what David says to his generals: deal gently for my sake with the young man Absalom (2 Sam. 18, 5), and when Absalom was killed, David was deeply grieved, cried, sobbed and said: “my son, my son Absalom! Oh, I had to die instead of you. (2 Sam. 18, 33). Continue reading