About addiction of children to parents
The topic of conversation for parent meetings: “bad habits in children. What to do with them?”
This issue is relevant for parents of kindergarten age and Junior level students.
What is a “bad habit”?
Bad habit is a negative tendency that has become need and actions, in behavior. It is a pattern of behavior that prevent the child normally live and grow.
The most common bad habits is:
– thumb sucking or different subjects;
– obkushuvannya nails;
– picking your nose;
– swaying from side to side, etc.
Noticing your child’s bad habit, parents face a dilemma: to fight the habit, or leave it as is?
Paradoxically, the correct answer to both questions is “no”.
You can’t fight the habit, because it’s the result of some unmet need. But, on the other hand, the habit cannot be ignored, because it, again a result of some unmet need.
Thus, for the first time seeing that your child sucks his thumb or bites her nails do not make the baby remark. And especially do not use punitive measures type masania fingers mustard, whipping by hand and / or severe penalties. Tell yourself: “This is an occasion to reflect me as a parent about what is happening with my child”.
You are going to marry. Re. You even forgot about the previous negative experience, but still there is one “but”. Then you were a free woman, and now you first mom. Or is it in the second. How to behave, what to tell the child what to call the new family member? That’s about it, now will be discussed.
Of course, the new composition of your family is and worries, and problems. But they have solutions. So, look:
Nothing prevents you to remain a good mother and again to feel loved by a woman and wife. Baby needs a happy mom. The only thing you should not do is to rush headlong into the maelstrom of a new marriage. Remember, the failed your previous relationship, analyze the most frequent quarrels. Maybe you fought mainly because your irregular working hours? Or a new Beau – a philanderer, and the ex-husband? Would it then good your new life? Rate chosen objectively. Whether he is ready for life together, does all the responsibility? And only answering positively to all the questions, tell your child about the changes in your family.
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Many children go through a period between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “”I am angry” or “I want this.”
Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.
If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.
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Show attention. If you see your child, not yet begun to walk to school, hit another, first go to his sacrifice. Raise a hurt child and say, “Igor didn’t mean to offend you.” Then hug him, kiss and spend out of the room. Thus you deprive your attention the child, Continue reading