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The Influence of fairy tales on the mental development of the child

Choosing a children’s tale for your baby, be sure to note the peculiarities of his mental development. Need to know at what age this tale the child will be helpful. In two years the child has developed the ability to keep in memory their own actions with objects and simple actions fairytale characters. This is the age when children love stories about animals. Children are happy, following adults, imitate the movements and sounds of fabulous animals, their actions with different objects. In fairy tales the kids notice and like repetitive narrative momentum. This technique, widely known for his children’s tales such as “Turnip”, “tower”, “the Gingerbread man”. Such organization of speech “storyteller”, helps a young child to remember the story and “get comfortable” in it. Psychologists say that for a better understanding of fairy tales, children need to rely not only on a verbal description, but also on the image. Visual image is a main support for tracing events. Such supports may be good illustrations in books, or action, played out by the parents on the story using puppets.

Between two and five years begins to develop the child’s ability to vividly present in the mind and fantasize. In other words, a child’s brain Continue reading

The Child and the computer

Modern children I talk a lot with TV, video and computer. If the previous generation was a generation of books, modern and receives information through a video series.

We often hear questions such as: how dangerous is a computer for my child? How much time you can spend with him? It does not stop there with the normal development of children?

Let’s try to understand what is a computer program for children, what are their benefits, and what are their shortcomings.

In the works of L. A. Wenger is devoted to the development and education of children of preschool age can find scientific justification and confirmation of how the computer can help the intellectual growth of the child.

On the display screen come to life any fantasy of a child, the heroes of books and fairy tales. But also come to life and the world, numbers and letters. Getting a computer game, they create a special world, like the real, but also different from him. Computer games are made so that the child could not imagine a single concept or a specific situation, but got a General idea about all similar situations or objects. Thus, children develop these crucial operations of thinking Continue reading

Why the child is lying to your parents?

How can she lie, looking me straight in the eye? The father of ten girls

In our relationship something goes wrong. I don’t understand why she can’t do I say it? If she trusted me, we would speak the truth. Mother of eight year old girls

Lying is one of the biggest problems in the child’s behavior. When you discover that your child is lying, it is not only shock you, but also hurts, Angers, puzzling and disappointing.

Nine-year-old Shelly Jay and her mom came to me a second time. Mrs. Jay in a rage told me that since our last meeting Shelly lied to her twice already. After the first lie mother as punishment for the week taken from the room Shelley TV. But two days later, Shelly lied again, explaining why so late coming home from school.

Until my mother told me, Shelly shyly sat in the chair, but suddenly jumped up and shouted: “it is not fair to take away my TV because I ate the cake!”

Her mother on the same raised voice said, “I took it not because you ate a brownie. I punished you because you lied. I just can’t stand lies.” Shelly didn’t want to repent and threw it in the answer: “And you’re lying. I know adults lie too”.

And, of course, Shelley was right. Not only politicians lie. We all, in varying degrees, Continue reading

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Why the child is lying to your parents?
How can she lie, looking me straight in the eye? The father of ten girls In our relationship something goes wrong. I don't understand why she can't do I say…

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