Even if you’ve always dreamed of having a daughter, the reality may be completely different from what you expected. Here’s what you need to know about raising girls.
When you learned you were expecting a daughter, you probably gave yourself a pedicure, or was at some party, or trying on dresses. Because you’re a girl, you probably thought that you will encounter the same issues in the education of his daughter. But the truth is, your little girl will be a few surprises for you. The desire to collect things obsessively to only wear all pink… let’s take a look with one eye on your future.
It may be even more «devchonochny» than you
Even if you have done everything possible to create a gender-neutral space for games, filled with cars, trains and other «malchikovyy» toys, don’t be surprised if your daughter will still develop a passion for princesses and dolls, the Barbie and the pink ballerina in the music box. No matter how much you try to fight this stereotype, the combination of a clear behavior with smart education may even surpass your efforts.
She will borrow your stuff
Your daughter’s Continue reading
The presence of own child any parent is tempting sometimes to think about the method, direction and character education. The realities of life often say that a more child to make a good soldier without fear and without reproach, than thin and intelligent man. How to deal with this dilemma?
Looking back, I often think about what the principles taught to me parents need to be honest, do not throw words to the wind, can’t let people bad-mouth middle, modesty is a virtue, for a friend do not mind However as I have matured my naivety, like the others, probably melted and the words spoken to my face, I began carefully to examine the implication for the information contained in the conversation, trying to see the true state of things – it was a student. And having entered the age of the worker, became to understand that not all “mom’s” principles work in my life. “Afloat” are not the cutest shy guy, but upstarts and cheek. So what is the conclusion – to be successful you need to “push”? Now I’m standing by the sandbox and looking at how the fat kid is pulling my daughter out of the hands of the bucket, think of how I could bring up? Let humbly give a bucket, Continue reading
The transformation of the little Princess like a Queen . that is, the education of girls, is a very complex process. He should consider how psychological and individual characteristics.
Than girls are different from boys?
Here we are not talking about the physiological and psychological differences between girls.
The fact that their psychological needs are a little different from boys. All children regardless of gender, you need trust, acceptance, approval, but the girls for the normal development need to feel more care from parents.
Boys, on the contrary I want to feel more independent. It is the care and support from adults, are perceived by the girl as a manifestation of true love.
So, the first and main feature of girl’s education in the family is to give her feel that parents care deeply about her and never leave her alone with difficulties.
So how would you have liked from an early age to instill the girl independence, do not be hasty. If it will grow with a feeling that she’ll want to do, she will not feel parental care and don’t Continue reading