All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.
In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?
A promise not to love
“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”
The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!
^ Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.
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Sometimes in the dream child behaves unusually, what scares parents. What are the causes of night anxiety and whether it is dangerous?
In the weak arms of Morpheus
The kid does not want to fall asleep or wakes up with difficulty and “noname”? He sleeps restlessly, not getting enough sleep, and then the whole day is in a bad mood? the “Infinite” the night gave way to a Sunny morning, but the kid is naughty, it all the time sleepy, he was listless and irritable. Obviously, it’s time to talk about sleep disorders in children.
Sleep disturbance in children
Frequently waking baby clouded night terrors are often more compelling to panic parents than himself. You go look in the nursery: he sleeps or gets up, walks, muttering something inarticulate. “Get up, count, we expect great things!” But crumbs, as they say, raise raised, and forgot to Wake up. Moreover, in this state, he looks very scared, his heartbeat quickens, he’s sweaty, hot — there is the so-called “autonomic storm”. However, all your fears kid soon forgets — they remain only in the memories of parents. And all this, if your child does not injure himself during such night “travel”, doesn’t need specific correction. A lot of anxiety Continue reading
What to do with a child’s greed? How do parents know when on the court, once again, the baby refused to share the machine, or scoop with a friend in the sandbox.
Always so obedient and docile boy, or affectionate girl, suddenly stomp your feet, hiding the machine, or a favorite doll behind his back and run away. The first reaction of the parents, in most cases, it’s a shame. Still, in their family is growing MEANIE! Mom asks, persuades, and often just power snatches kid a treasured toy, and gives the child who demanded her. Correctly enters the mother? Because the child in 2 -3 years always egomaniac, and talk about greed, as the trait in this age it is still very early. For the baby, in the first place – he himself, and all the other people, only an addition. A significant role in the prioritization of play and the parents. The child often is the center around which revolves the life of all other family members. And how can you demand from him willingly and unquestioningly to give his toy to another child?
In addition, at this age, children are very sensitive to parting with their belongings. Toy for baby, exactly the same thing for personal use, as for my mother, for example, lipstick or favorite sunglasses. You do not give your glasses a stranger, or even a familiar girl who will Continue reading