He had a fever, his throat was red, nose, rash. And immediately fell anxieties and worries, bad mood, lowered his hands. “It would be better, I got sick!” Probably every mother knows this phrase, thrown into despair.
During illness crumbs (no matter what age!) parents are almost always faced with the question: “How to respond to whims?”. This is because the disease often makes the baby cranky, and his whims, quirks turn into tyranny against parents.
On the one hand, it is clear that if the child is sick, he needs more attention, affection and care. Mom should always be nearby, and not only because it is necessary from a medical point of view, but also because it genuinely sorry. You are near, because I sympathize with him and want to somehow ease his pain, anguish and suffering. How come they have strength and patience. You do not be lazy often to feed and change him, if he’s sweating. You are willing to do other beverage or food, if he shows his displeasure. You buy him a new toy, once again happy. You constantly and carefully inquire about his health.
However, on the other hand, children very quickly get used to such treatment. They very soon learn how to get pleasure from illness and to evoke the sympathy. As a result, their ability to independently solve their own problems does not develop, like a muscle, which is not in use. Continue reading
Features of education of adolescent girls
It is quite clear that girls are different from boys, and not only superficially and by sex. Try to understand more specifically what is this difference and how to raise the girl properly, what are the features of the education of girls.
Believe that girls are much easier to raise than boys. Of course, while they are small, they are more obedient, docile, give less trouble to his parents. Of course, there are exceptions. Sometimes the girl has such a nature that it is easily boys will replace.
And here’s your lovely kind and obedient baby is growing up – here “pop up pitfalls.” All that you have not finished in childhood, manifests itself, usually in adolescence.
So what parents should definitely pay attention?
First, consider than the physiological development of girls is different from boys. Brain development in girls differently from boys. From little princesses to develop quickly left hemisphere is responsible for speech and communication. That’s why the girls begin to speak, read and write earlier than boys. And at school age they already dominated by the right hemisphere, in this regard, and thinking becomes intuitive – shaped, in contrast to boys who have more logical thinking.
The girls quickly get used to the new environment, because they are more emotionally resilient. Continue reading
All children from time to time cry, absolutely healthy newborn baby cries in the middle of one to three hours daily. Why is the child crying? Crying is a way of communicating a small child, by which he gives us, the adults, know their needs.
Nature intended so that the cry of a baby stimulates the increase in the mother level of prolactin and oxytocin, hormones that stimulate the production of breast milk and its excretion from the chest.
Young parents sometimes find it difficult to understand why the child is crying: he is hungry, he is cold, he is bored, he needs a diaper change or he wants to get him on the handles? In the first days after birth, when you are not yet aware of his needs, this crying can irritate, annoy, or even lead to despair, but gradually you will begin to distinguish the different types of crying, and therefore will be able to immediately meet the needs of their child. Over time, your kid will learn other ways to communicate with parents: look into the eyes, to babble, to publish different sounds, stretch hands, smile.
In most cases, the baby screams, to show that he is uncomfortable: it is the only available method tries to achieve what he needs. From the following list Continue reading