All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.
In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?
A promise not to love
“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”
The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!
^ Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.
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Sometimes in the dream child behaves unusually, what scares parents. What are the causes of night anxiety and whether it is dangerous?
In the weak arms of Morpheus
The kid does not want to fall asleep or wakes up with difficulty and “noname”? He sleeps restlessly, not getting enough sleep, and then the whole day is in a bad mood? the “Infinite” the night gave way to a Sunny morning, but the kid is naughty, it all the time sleepy, he was listless and irritable. Obviously, it’s time to talk about sleep disorders in children.
Sleep disturbance in children
Frequently waking baby clouded night terrors are often more compelling to panic parents than himself. You go look in the nursery: he sleeps or gets up, walks, muttering something inarticulate. “Get up, count, we expect great things!” But crumbs, as they say, raise raised, and forgot to Wake up. Moreover, in this state, he looks very scared, his heartbeat quickens, he’s sweaty, hot — there is the so-called “autonomic storm”. However, all your fears kid soon forgets — they remain only in the memories of parents. And all this, if your child does not injure himself during such night “travel”, doesn’t need specific correction. A lot of anxiety Continue reading
Recovering from childbirth is a difficult and long process. After childbirth – the strongest physical and psychological stress for women, even the past without features and give birth to healthy, long-awaited child. Therefore, a woman needs proper rest. For some time we got the hospital on the principle of “Mother and child” where the child from the first hours after birth, you’ll be near the mother.
The woman swells and enlarges Breasts, they produce colostrum, and then milk. The uterus continues to shrink, while a woman may feel light contractions, especially during breastfeeding, when the baby sucks intensively. During contraction the damaged surface on the wall of the uterus that arose after the rejection of the placenta, begins to drag on. With the wounds go postnatal discharge consisting of blood, tissue particles and blood secretion. Immediately after birth, the uterus weighs 1 kg. For the following six weeks she takes your normal weight – 50-60 gr. Spotting pass through the first two days. They can be quite active, more strong than in the first days of menstruation. After that, the discharge becomes less intense. Postnatal discharge, called lochia, last 5-6 weeks after giving birth to a full contractions of the uterus to its normal size. This period is called postpartum.