I feel that turn into ass-stupid. Every day I repeat to Yaroslav and Kate the same memorized phrases: “Yarik, hang up the jacket on a hanger”, “Katya, pick up toys», «Yarik, clean up on the table”, “Kate, put your pencils in the box”. Some household maniac, one word. But if I don’t turn this broken record here, our apartment will be buried under the rubble of toys, books, candy wrappers, bits, clothes. Because the children themselves can calmly live in such a mess.
One night I jumped up from a loud noise. It was coming from a child. It turned out that Jaroslav is not removed from his bed on the second floor a few machines, and at night the Armory fell out of bed son.
Recently I about five hours to restore order in the nursery. Carefully, spine to spine, folded books, cards son and his soldiers. Have collected a few pictures of the puzzles scattered daughter. Children sparkling clean. I’m only a couple hours away from home… All books, cards and puzzles were scattered, jumbled, on the floor, and the kids scissors cut a box of Christmas toys hidden until the next New year in the dressing room. But the most Continue reading
Tip one: the most important thing you can give your child is your attention.
Listen to his stories about the school, ask clarifying questions. And remember: what you think is not very important for your son or daughter could be the most exciting event for the entire day! If your interest in its Affairs and concerns, he will feel your support. Listening to it carefully, you will be able to understand what the child needs your help, what should talk with a teacher, what really happens after you say goodbye to him at the door of the school.
Tip two: your positive attitude to school and teachers will facilitate the child’s adjustment period.
Collaborate with your child’s teachers, offer help, be active. In the class with active parents as it is noticed, closer and better relationships between children, more interesting life, more holidays and trips.
Even if you personally, as parents, have any questions to the teachers, you feel that something needs to be done differently, all friction should remain between adults. Otherwise the child will be forced to be torn between the love of parents and authority of the teacher. Very harmful negative or disrespectful statements about school and teachers “in the family circle”, it is much more difficult child adaptation period, would undermine the peace of the child and confidence Continue reading
The education of children in the family a complex of interpersonal relationships. Modern parents often use the wrong methods of education that leads to unpleasant consequences not only for families but also for society.
How to treat baby to grow healthy personality?
Types of relationships
First of all, you need to understand the methods of education that are used by parents. They can be divided into several separate types of relationships:
Dictatorship. This type represents the suppression of Chad, the desire to make it obedient to impose the views of the adult. The goal of such education is to realize their unfulfilled dreams, beating his own desires and subdue temper. Dictatorship is dangerous and in the end results in the hatred of parents.
Custody. Someone starts to raise their child in a horrible custody, protecting from any disappointments. Mom and dad try to give the baby everything and solve problems for him. While all family members are constantly praised and try not to scold. Such child rearing leads to the fact that, when faced with the realities of life, he will be stunned. Many children reared in excessive care, commit suicide. Care — too dangerous form of education.