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The Influence of fairy tales on the mental development of the child

Choosing a children’s tale for your baby, be sure to note the peculiarities of his mental development. Need to know at what age this tale the child will be helpful. In two years the child has developed the ability to keep in memory their own actions with objects and simple actions fairytale characters. This is the age when children love stories about animals. Children are happy, following adults, imitate the movements and sounds of fabulous animals, their actions with different objects. In fairy tales the kids notice and like repetitive narrative momentum. This technique, widely known for his children’s tales such as “Turnip”, “tower”, “the Gingerbread man”. Such organization of speech “storyteller”, helps a young child to remember the story and “get comfortable” in it. Psychologists say that for a better understanding of fairy tales, children need to rely not only on a verbal description, but also on the image. Visual image is a main support for tracing events. Such supports may be good illustrations in books, or action, played out by the parents on the story using puppets.

Between two and five years begins to develop the child’s ability to vividly present in the mind and fantasize. In other words, a child’s brain Continue reading

PROBLEMS of CHILDREN IN the MODERN FAMILY of a SMALL TOWN

The family as a social institution provides for the successful socialization of the individual through the accumulation of its initial adaptive capacity in the assimilation of the children of standards of public life. The feelings that arose in response to the situation in the family, become driving forces of his deviant behavior. It is the guilt, fear, resentment, anger.

Every year increases the number of deviant activity among adolescents. These deviations are determined by the contradictions arising from the interaction of various social communities with socio-cultural values. Particularly acute this problem is in our country today, where all spheres of public life are undergoing major changes, there is a devaluation of the former standards of conduct. Established ways of working are not producing the desired results. The mismatch between expectations and reality increases tension in society and the willingness of people to change their behavior, to go beyond the established Continue reading

Why the child is lying to your parents?

How can she lie, looking me straight in the eye? The father of ten girls

In our relationship something goes wrong. I don’t understand why she can’t do I say it? If she trusted me, we would speak the truth. Mother of eight year old girls

Lying is one of the biggest problems in the child’s behavior. When you discover that your child is lying, it is not only shock you, but also hurts, Angers, puzzling and disappointing.

Nine-year-old Shelly Jay and her mom came to me a second time. Mrs. Jay in a rage told me that since our last meeting Shelly lied to her twice already. After the first lie mother as punishment for the week taken from the room Shelley TV. But two days later, Shelly lied again, explaining why so late coming home from school.

Until my mother told me, Shelly shyly sat in the chair, but suddenly jumped up and shouted: “it is not fair to take away my TV because I ate the cake!”

Her mother on the same raised voice said, “I took it not because you ate a brownie. I punished you because you lied. I just can’t stand lies.” Shelly didn’t want to repent and threw it in the answer: “And you’re lying. I know adults lie too”.

And, of course, Shelley was right. Not only politicians lie. We all, in varying degrees, Continue reading

Why babies cry before sleep
In the first year, children often cry at bedtime. Studies show that 30% of children disturbed sleep. As a consequence, there are problems with night waking, falling asleep and changing…

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Tips for parents of first-grader
Tip one: the most important thing you can give your child is your attention. Listen to his stories about the school, ask clarifying questions. And remember: what you think is…

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Why the child is lying to your parents?
How can she lie, looking me straight in the eye? The father of ten girls In our relationship something goes wrong. I don't understand why she can't do I say…

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