All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.
In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?
A promise not to love
“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”
The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!
^ Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.
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the Child after the divorce – as the separation of parents affects children
The child when the parents live apart, you may choose for yourself the different models of behaviour – can be aggressive, truant, engage in fighting, throwing of school or to close themselves isolated from their peers. Divorce of parents is not only a crisis in the marriage , it is also shock and stress for the child who often blames himself for the end of love between mom and dad.
The effects of divorce on children
Divorce is not only the case of adults. The separation of parents and children experiencing. Divorce is a frequent reality for many families and, as with any crisis, entails the need to adapt to changes. However, the disintegration of the family should not mean pathology.
Problems children . parents are divorced, they often emerge not from the situation of divorce, although, of course, it is difficult to understand how still two loving people can leave. Most often the source of the problem children is anger, hatred and anger that accompany conflicts of parents. How a child copes with a difficult moment in life, depends mainly from his mom and dad.
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Have you ever Noticed that almost all the subjects (poetry and prose, books and movies), describing the love, present it as the greatest happiness, which, however, goes hand in hand with suffering?
This is the law? And true love without suffering does not really exist?
Love brings suffering, if it is based on has his right to full possession of the other person. Here are some of the most important rules, compliance with which allows you to approach the understanding of what unconditional love and rid yourself of suffering.
Unconditional love begins with the ability to love a person and it’s uniqueness. And «uniqueness» – it’s not red hair, and a cheerful disposition, not reckless courage, and intelligence. What then? Man’s soul, her innermost aspirations.
This is the inner world that does not flaunt it, and watch out for himself and the nearest person. If you want to – it’s those moments of inspiration, which is experiencing a loved one, doing photography, or trying themselves in the art of versification, carving out figurines made of wood or trying to turn «Zhiguli» if not «Mercedes», then «Volkswagen». It is those moments of joy that he experiences in skydiving, while rafting on a mountain river or a quiet Continue reading