You are going to marry. Re. You even forgot about the previous negative experience, but still there is one “but”. Then you were a free woman, and now you first mom. Or is it in the second. How to behave, what to tell the child what to call the new family member? That’s about it, now will be discussed.
Of course, the new composition of your family is and worries, and problems. But they have solutions. So, look:
Nothing prevents you to remain a good mother and again to feel loved by a woman and wife. Baby needs a happy mom. The only thing you should not do is to rush headlong into the maelstrom of a new marriage. Remember, the failed your previous relationship, analyze the most frequent quarrels. Maybe you fought mainly because your irregular working hours? Or a new Beau – a philanderer, and the ex-husband? Would it then good your new life? Rate chosen objectively. Whether he is ready for life together, does all the responsibility? And only answering positively to all the questions, tell your child about the changes in your family.
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Tip one: the most important thing you can give your child is your attention.
Listen to his stories about the school, ask clarifying questions. And remember: what you think is not very important for your son or daughter could be the most exciting event for the entire day! If your interest in its Affairs and concerns, he will feel your support. Listening to it carefully, you will be able to understand what the child needs your help, what should talk with a teacher, what really happens after you say goodbye to him at the door of the school.
Tip two: your positive attitude to school and teachers will facilitate the child’s adjustment period.
Collaborate with your child’s teachers, offer help, be active. In the class with active parents as it is noticed, closer and better relationships between children, more interesting life, more holidays and trips.
Even if you personally, as parents, have any questions to the teachers, you feel that something needs to be done differently, all friction should remain between adults. Otherwise the child will be forced to be torn between the love of parents and authority of the teacher. Very harmful negative or disrespectful statements about school and teachers “in the family circle”, it is much more difficult child adaptation period, would undermine the peace of the child and confidence Continue reading
The education of children in the family a complex of interpersonal relationships. Modern parents often use the wrong methods of education that leads to unpleasant consequences not only for families but also for society.
How to treat baby to grow healthy personality?
Types of relationships
First of all, you need to understand the methods of education that are used by parents. They can be divided into several separate types of relationships:
Dictatorship. This type represents the suppression of Chad, the desire to make it obedient to impose the views of the adult. The goal of such education is to realize their unfulfilled dreams, beating his own desires and subdue temper. Dictatorship is dangerous and in the end results in the hatred of parents.
Custody. Someone starts to raise their child in a horrible custody, protecting from any disappointments. Mom and dad try to give the baby everything and solve problems for him. While all family members are constantly praised and try not to scold. Such child rearing leads to the fact that, when faced with the realities of life, he will be stunned. Many children reared in excessive care, commit suicide. Care — too dangerous form of education.