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The Influence of fairy tales on the mental development of the child

Choosing a children’s tale for your baby, be sure to note the peculiarities of his mental development. Need to know at what age this tale the child will be helpful. In two years the child has developed the ability to keep in memory their own actions with objects and simple actions fairytale characters. This is the age when children love stories about animals. Children are happy, following adults, imitate the movements and sounds of fabulous animals, their actions with different objects. In fairy tales the kids notice and like repetitive narrative momentum. This technique, widely known for his children’s tales such as “Turnip”, “tower”, “the Gingerbread man”. Such organization of speech “storyteller”, helps a young child to remember the story and “get comfortable” in it. Psychologists say that for a better understanding of fairy tales, children need to rely not only on a verbal description, but also on the image. Visual image is a main support for tracing events. Such supports may be good illustrations in books, or action, played out by the parents on the story using puppets.

Between two and five years begins to develop the child’s ability to vividly present in the mind and fantasize. In other words, a child’s brain Continue reading

Why the child is lying to your parents?

How can she lie, looking me straight in the eye? The father of ten girls

In our relationship something goes wrong. I don’t understand why she can’t do I say it? If she trusted me, we would speak the truth. Mother of eight year old girls

Lying is one of the biggest problems in the child’s behavior. When you discover that your child is lying, it is not only shock you, but also hurts, Angers, puzzling and disappointing.

Nine-year-old Shelly Jay and her mom came to me a second time. Mrs. Jay in a rage told me that since our last meeting Shelly lied to her twice already. After the first lie mother as punishment for the week taken from the room Shelley TV. But two days later, Shelly lied again, explaining why so late coming home from school.

Until my mother told me, Shelly shyly sat in the chair, but suddenly jumped up and shouted: “it is not fair to take away my TV because I ate the cake!”

Her mother on the same raised voice said, “I took it not because you ate a brownie. I punished you because you lied. I just can’t stand lies.” Shelly didn’t want to repent and threw it in the answer: “And you’re lying. I know adults lie too”.

And, of course, Shelley was right. Not only politicians lie. We all, in varying degrees, Continue reading

Bad habits in children and bad manners

Bad habits in children – what are they? Why are there bad habits in children? And whether to deal with them? Children usually know about what bad habits they have – apparently, the adults in the family explain it to them repeatedly.

And the children try to deal with them – sometimes it works, sometimes not.

So what are the habits of childhood can be classified as bad?

Habits of a person are those actions that a person commits first sporadically, then more and more, and then these actions are performed automatically.

At the same time people do not think. do I need to do it or not, because such action is logged into the habit.

There are good habits – wash in the morning, wash your hands before eating or brushing your teeth morning and night. And there are addictions bad, although not everyone agrees.

The idea of the harmfulness of certain habits depends on how civilized or cultural society of the country. Sometimes the same habits in one country are considered bad, but in other places it seems to be normal.

Bad habits in children and bad manners

However, most parents, watching their children say that their children still have those or other bad manners, but mom and dad do not always know how such addictions to fight.

So, if the child eats, for example, chips or crackers, Continue reading

A Sense of greed in children
What to do with a child's greed? How do parents know when on the court, once again, the baby refused to share the machine, or scoop with a friend in…

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Why the child does not sleep
Sometimes in the dream child behaves unusually, what scares parents. What are the causes of night anxiety and whether it is dangerous? In the weak arms of Morpheus The kid…

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Mom, I'm scared!
I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four…

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