About addiction of children to parents
The topic of conversation for parent meetings: “bad habits in children. What to do with them?”
This issue is relevant for parents of kindergarten age and Junior level students.
What is a “bad habit”?
Bad habit is a negative tendency that has become need and actions, in behavior. It is a pattern of behavior that prevent the child normally live and grow.
The most common bad habits is:
– thumb sucking or different subjects;
– obkushuvannya nails;
– picking your nose;
– swaying from side to side, etc.
Noticing your child’s bad habit, parents face a dilemma: to fight the habit, or leave it as is?
Paradoxically, the correct answer to both questions is “no”.
You can’t fight the habit, because it’s the result of some unmet need. But, on the other hand, the habit cannot be ignored, because it, again a result of some unmet need.
Thus, for the first time seeing that your child sucks his thumb or bites her nails do not make the baby remark. And especially do not use punitive measures type masania fingers mustard, whipping by hand and / or severe penalties. Tell yourself: “This is an occasion to reflect me as a parent about what is happening with my child”.
Many children go through a period between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “”I am angry” or “I want this.”
Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.
If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.
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