Modern children I talk a lot with TV, video and computer. If the previous generation was a generation of books, modern and receives information through a video series.
We often hear questions such as: how dangerous is a computer for my child? How much time you can spend with him? It does not stop there with the normal development of children?
Let’s try to understand what is a computer program for children, what are their benefits, and what are their shortcomings.
In the works of L. A. Wenger is devoted to the development and education of children of preschool age can find scientific justification and confirmation of how the computer can help the intellectual growth of the child.
On the display screen come to life any fantasy of a child, the heroes of books and fairy tales. But also come to life and the world, numbers and letters. Getting a computer game, they create a special world, like the real, but also different from him. Computer games are made so that the child could not imagine a single concept or a specific situation, but got a General idea about all similar situations or objects. Thus, children develop these crucial operations of thinking Continue reading
Ability to focus on the sound – auditory attention – a very important feature of a person, without which it is impossible to hear and understand speech.
It is also important to distinguish and analyze the sounds. This skill is called phonemic hearing. A small child is not able to compare the sounds, but you can teach it. The goal of the exercises on the development of phonemic hearing is to teach the child to listen and hear.
THE DEVELOPMENT OF AUDITORY ATTENTION
guess that sounds
You need to show your child what sounds the various items (like paper rustling, like diamonds rings, what sound does a drum, the sound of the rattle). Then you need to play the sounds so that the child has not seen the object itself. And the child must try to guess what object is making a sound.
the sun or the rain
An adult tells the child what they’re going for a walk. The weather is good and the Sun is shining (adult tambourine rings). Then the adult says the rain has gone (he strikes the tambourine and asks the child to run up to him – to hide from the rain). The adult explains to the child that he must listen carefully to the tambourine and in accordance with its sounds “walk” or “hide”.
talking in a whisper
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How can she lie, looking me straight in the eye? The father of ten girls
In our relationship something goes wrong. I don’t understand why she can’t do I say it? If she trusted me, we would speak the truth. Mother of eight year old girls
Lying is one of the biggest problems in the child’s behavior. When you discover that your child is lying, it is not only shock you, but also hurts, Angers, puzzling and disappointing.
Nine-year-old Shelly Jay and her mom came to me a second time. Mrs. Jay in a rage told me that since our last meeting Shelly lied to her twice already. After the first lie mother as punishment for the week taken from the room Shelley TV. But two days later, Shelly lied again, explaining why so late coming home from school.
Until my mother told me, Shelly shyly sat in the chair, but suddenly jumped up and shouted: “it is not fair to take away my TV because I ate the cake!”
Her mother on the same raised voice said, “I took it not because you ate a brownie. I punished you because you lied. I just can’t stand lies.” Shelly didn’t want to repent and threw it in the answer: “And you’re lying. I know adults lie too”.
And, of course, Shelley was right. Not only politicians lie. We all, in varying degrees, Continue reading