Have you ever Noticed that almost all the subjects (poetry and prose, books and movies), describing the love, present it as the greatest happiness, which, however, goes hand in hand with suffering?
This is the law? And true love without suffering does not really exist?
Love brings suffering, if it is based on has his right to full possession of the other person. Here are some of the most important rules, compliance with which allows you to approach the understanding of what unconditional love and rid yourself of suffering.
Unconditional love begins with the ability to love a person and it’s uniqueness. And «uniqueness» – it’s not red hair, and a cheerful disposition, not reckless courage, and intelligence. What then? Man’s soul, her innermost aspirations.
This is the inner world that does not flaunt it, and watch out for himself and the nearest person. If you want to – it’s those moments of inspiration, which is experiencing a loved one, doing photography, or trying themselves in the art of versification, carving out figurines made of wood or trying to turn «Zhiguli» if not «Mercedes», then «Volkswagen». It is those moments of joy that he experiences in skydiving, while rafting on a mountain river or a quiet Continue reading
Children is a special room. Every parent strives to make it a truly beautiful, comfortable, convenient and safe. A special role for children’s plays textile design space in General and Windows in particular. What should be the curtains in the nursery . What factors, in addition to the design affect the choice of children’s curtains? All the important aspects and nuances – from the practical to the psychological – assembled in our article.
Curtains: main requirements
In this room the real magic happens. Here grows a new person, growing up, exploring the world, fantasizing, engaging and communicating with friends. For this you need a comfortable and safe space. Like any piece of furniture designed for children’s room, curtains are required to meet certain requirements .
They should have an antistatic effect. Simply put, not to attract dust. This not only helps keep a neat look, but will not create a nourishing environment for the development of allergies.
It is desirable that the curtains were made from natural fibers. Then they’ll be safe for the health of children. Typically, in a modern city it is difficult to find interior design and decorating materials, which would also be strong, durable and natural. In the boy’s room and you can use a synthetic Continue reading
Tip one: the most important thing you can give your child is your attention.
Listen to his stories about the school, ask clarifying questions. And remember: what you think is not very important for your son or daughter could be the most exciting event for the entire day! If your interest in its Affairs and concerns, he will feel your support. Listening to it carefully, you will be able to understand what the child needs your help, what should talk with a teacher, what really happens after you say goodbye to him at the door of the school.
Tip two: your positive attitude to school and teachers will facilitate the child’s adjustment period.
Collaborate with your child’s teachers, offer help, be active. In the class with active parents as it is noticed, closer and better relationships between children, more interesting life, more holidays and trips.
Even if you personally, as parents, have any questions to the teachers, you feel that something needs to be done differently, all friction should remain between adults. Otherwise the child will be forced to be torn between the love of parents and authority of the teacher. Very harmful negative or disrespectful statements about school and teachers “in the family circle”, it is much more difficult child adaptation period, would undermine the peace of the child and confidence Continue reading