the Child after the divorce – as the separation of parents affects children
The child when the parents live apart, you may choose for yourself the different models of behaviour – can be aggressive, truant, engage in fighting, throwing of school or to close themselves isolated from their peers. Divorce of parents is not only a crisis in the marriage , it is also shock and stress for the child who often blames himself for the end of love between mom and dad.
The effects of divorce on children
Divorce is not only the case of adults. The separation of parents and children experiencing. Divorce is a frequent reality for many families and, as with any crisis, entails the need to adapt to changes. However, the disintegration of the family should not mean pathology.
Problems children . parents are divorced, they often emerge not from the situation of divorce, although, of course, it is difficult to understand how still two loving people can leave. Most often the source of the problem children is anger, hatred and anger that accompany conflicts of parents. How a child copes with a difficult moment in life, depends mainly from his mom and dad.
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For many parents, it’s no secret that there are children who prefer listening to when they read books, and sometimes themselves take them in hand, with interest and even considering reading them, and them under any pretext will not be forced to listen to a couple of lines. But also many of them wish that their kids listened with delight to the tales of their childhood and at least occasionally stretched for colored colorful books instead of TV and computer. How do parents need to behave and what to do to instill in your child a love of books and reading?
1. Serve children the example of his own keen on reading books and various printed publications.
Nothing can be done – in the first place, it is helpful to show love to that class to which you want to instill a love of children. Because children – terrible flies, and produce weaker replicas pig-kapioski! They all repeat after others: if dad all evening sits at the TV, and so, the child will sit at the TV with the remote in hand; if the mother clock “hangs” on the phone, so your baby will not anyhow any interest in the phones; parents love to play sports – a child with them; parents are always with Continue reading
Have you ever Noticed that almost all the subjects (poetry and prose, books and movies), describing the love, present it as the greatest happiness, which, however, goes hand in hand with suffering?
This is the law? And true love without suffering does not really exist?
Love brings suffering, if it is based on has his right to full possession of the other person. Here are some of the most important rules, compliance with which allows you to approach the understanding of what unconditional love and rid yourself of suffering.
Unconditional love begins with the ability to love a person and it’s uniqueness. And «uniqueness» – it’s not red hair, and a cheerful disposition, not reckless courage, and intelligence. What then? Man’s soul, her innermost aspirations.
This is the inner world that does not flaunt it, and watch out for himself and the nearest person. If you want to – it’s those moments of inspiration, which is experiencing a loved one, doing photography, or trying themselves in the art of versification, carving out figurines made of wood or trying to turn «Zhiguli» if not «Mercedes», then «Volkswagen». It is those moments of joy that he experiences in skydiving, while rafting on a mountain river or a quiet Continue reading