Modern children I talk a lot with TV, video and computer. If the previous generation was a generation of books, modern and receives information through a video series.
We often hear questions such as: how dangerous is a computer for my child? How much time you can spend with him? It does not stop there with the normal development of children?
Let’s try to understand what is a computer program for children, what are their benefits, and what are their shortcomings.
In the works of L. A. Wenger is devoted to the development and education of children of preschool age can find scientific justification and confirmation of how the computer can help the intellectual growth of the child.
On the display screen come to life any fantasy of a child, the heroes of books and fairy tales. But also come to life and the world, numbers and letters. Getting a computer game, they create a special world, like the real, but also different from him. Computer games are made so that the child could not imagine a single concept or a specific situation, but got a General idea about all similar situations or objects. Thus, children develop these crucial operations of thinking Continue reading
How can she lie, looking me straight in the eye? The father of ten girls
In our relationship something goes wrong. I don’t understand why she can’t do I say it? If she trusted me, we would speak the truth. Mother of eight year old girls
Lying is one of the biggest problems in the child’s behavior. When you discover that your child is lying, it is not only shock you, but also hurts, Angers, puzzling and disappointing.
Nine-year-old Shelly Jay and her mom came to me a second time. Mrs. Jay in a rage told me that since our last meeting Shelly lied to her twice already. After the first lie mother as punishment for the week taken from the room Shelley TV. But two days later, Shelly lied again, explaining why so late coming home from school.
Until my mother told me, Shelly shyly sat in the chair, but suddenly jumped up and shouted: “it is not fair to take away my TV because I ate the cake!”
Her mother on the same raised voice said, “I took it not because you ate a brownie. I punished you because you lied. I just can’t stand lies.” Shelly didn’t want to repent and threw it in the answer: “And you’re lying. I know adults lie too”.
And, of course, Shelley was right. Not only politicians lie. We all, in varying degrees, Continue reading
Bad habits in children – what are they? Why are there bad habits in children? And whether to deal with them? Children usually know about what bad habits they have – apparently, the adults in the family explain it to them repeatedly.
And the children try to deal with them – sometimes it works, sometimes not.
So what are the habits of childhood can be classified as bad?
Habits of a person are those actions that a person commits first sporadically, then more and more, and then these actions are performed automatically.
At the same time people do not think. do I need to do it or not, because such action is logged into the habit.
There are good habits – wash in the morning, wash your hands before eating or brushing your teeth morning and night. And there are addictions bad, although not everyone agrees.
The idea of the harmfulness of certain habits depends on how civilized or cultural society of the country. Sometimes the same habits in one country are considered bad, but in other places it seems to be normal.
Bad habits in children and bad manners
However, most parents, watching their children say that their children still have those or other bad manners, but mom and dad do not always know how such addictions to fight.
So, if the child eats, for example, chips or crackers, Continue reading