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Parents and children

Somehow in one of the shows on TV showed the nursing home. Many inhabitants of the house were brought here by their children and left in the care of the state. The headmistress says that gradually, the children rarely visit their parents. At first, the old people are outraged, offended, then accept, i.e., as expected, move on the scale of emotions to apathy and death. And interestingly, for 25 years, her work was never a time that someone said it I raised these children. No one has claimed responsibility!

The situation according to our observations, is very characteristic: every parent believes the duty of children to provide him with the attention, support and care in old age. But you ask those who think so, what they did in the process of bringing to this character trait is caring and consideration for others? Very simple truth is that will create is what you get. Why is it that people voluntarily take on this is not very easy to wear: it is well known that with the elderly harder than with a baby. Only Moody, irritable dad will not put in the corner, not forced to be obedient as a child.

So how justified such an expectation? Let’s try to understand who is who and what should. It is useful to look at the classic analogy: what comes first – the chicken Continue reading

From a boy to raise a man who doesn’t cry?

Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way. This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.

Itself to cry, do not be ashamed and not harmful. Good to cry from joy, to cry at the funeral, where appropriate and customary. But in other situations where children and women can cry, men do not. Men don’t cry, because for them it is usually pointless, and to be boys, we have a strong and reasonable people.

This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.

Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they Continue reading

Why babies cry before sleep

In the first year, children often cry at bedtime. Studies show that 30% of children disturbed sleep. As a consequence, there are problems with night waking, falling asleep and changing the sleep mode. These reasons appear in children at preschool age and lead to hyperactivity in the children’s behavior, depression and mental disorders.

Causes of crying child

Baby crying before sleep can be explained by the fact that during waking hours it is oversaturated information and at bedtime he needs to throw out the accumulated reserve of energy and emotions. Causes of crying child is different. And often the child cries before going to sleep not because he is hungry or in pain, and only by the fact that, not just weeping, he won’t be able to sleep. Many are crying because the light was too bright or they hear loud sounds. Why need to protect him from these stimuli.

Why the child is crying before bedtime

Why the baby is crying at bedtime

If the child is crying for no reason, do you think we should make sure first that it hurts nothing. If the child is a newborn, the main cause tears and bad restless sleep are colic. What really is a dream in this case. Here can help special drops, massage the tummy. Continue reading

Bad habits in children and bad manners
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